I just arrived in Toronto the day before yesterday,living with a homestay family of an old couple’s about 60 years old.They are really really nice people.They’ve been telling me to make myself at home and do whatever I want to.I talked with them when having meals,just some casual topics about our families and my study.It was nice.But the rest of the day,I just don’t know what to do.They watch TV,and call their frieds &kids,staying quite idle.I feel it’s sort of boring and have nothing to do,especially when I don’t have to attend school yet.And I can’t find children of my age around here.The internet seems to be the only way to kill my time.
I am the outdoor kinda girl and the place they live is quite far away from downtown or any other public facilities.It’s quite different from where I used to live.I don’t wanna bother them or make them think that I feel bored,nor do I wanna wander around ,doing nothing like a zombie.
What can I do? How can I have more communication and interaction with them?I don’t know much about the people and the culture here nor do I think that we have much in common…But I hate to just stay polite.And my English is still not good enough ,so I got stuck a lot when talking .
I really want to feel like a part of the family.Tips please!!
You could try asking them questions about what sort of outdoor activities there are in the area, and what sort of places people go to. Ask them other questions about the area, as well. Or ask about where they went to school, and what it was like. Will you be walking to your school, or getting a ride? Perhaps you could go and see where it is. Or maybe they could tell you about the shops in the neighbourhood. Maybe there are some things that you could do to help out around the house. Sometimes it is easier to get to know someone when you are doing dishes together. Maybe even just walk around the neighbourhood to find out where things are, such as stores, transit, mail boxes, and things like that.
I am sure that things will get better for you as you settle in; two days isn’t really much time to feel at home. You may be jet lagged as well, depending on where you are from. That doesn’t help a person to feel their best.
And your English is quite good already, and it will get better with time!