I’m 29,
She’s 24
Ok we have talked online a lot and we promised to be GF/BF. She always cares about me and tells me alot of nice things. plus i teach her english. She keeps saying she’s lonely. Oh PLLLEASe!
I am starting to doubt her . Most International students in USA always meet other international students, befriend them and even get into relationships with them. Moreover, she’s lonely…so she will accept any men that likes her( She’s pretty and hot so what American or foreigner wouldn’t like her).
She has said that she likes me and only me because I’m unique, etc etc But i’m pretty sure she has BF in L.A and i’m pretty sure she meets other guys online and voice chats with them.
however, when she talks to me in voice chat( We always voice chat when we meet), she sounds really sincere. she even cried one time.
What to make of this relationship.. Could she easily leave me because she will probably be swept away by some Guy in L.a. , either a foreign guy who is a classmate or an American who she happens to meet.
PS. She lives in LA doing homestay. I live in a city not so far from there but we have not met in real life. We will meet in a few months though
But you have no proof of all these things that you believe she is doing. One of the first foundations of relationships is TRUST. If you do not trust her, or she doesn’t trust you, then the relationship will end in failure. I don’t know you, but from what you have written, you seem like you are insecure with yourself, you seem afraid that she is so pretty that she could easily leave you for just any guy. You sound like you’re unsure of your feelings for her, yet you’ve asked a series of questions pertaining to this attractive Japanese student LOL. You sound like the type of guy that would break into her email account, check her text messages, and ask her where she has been (LOL I’m just kidding, but I HOPE you’re not like that). Trust me, girls don’t want their man acting like he owns her. Have pride and confience in knowing that you are loveable and that you have a lot of love to give. If you’re willing, give her the benefit of the doubt and see where the relationship leads you, if you’re not willing, then finish teaching her English and be done with it. There are many paths in life to take. Good luck.